HAPPINESS
(Based on a presentation by Melinda Conner at the 2016 Healing Touch Worldwide Conference)
What is happiness?
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a biochemical reaction to a physical or emotional stimulus (wait – this doesn’t sound too exciting!)
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a change in individual perception – it IS a CHOICE
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an opportunity for a new experience
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an art – we can develop skill in happiness with practice
Why be happy?
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It feels really good.
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It changes relationships in a positive way.
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Happy people live longer.
Are you happy?
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If the answer is “Yes, but . . .” this means there is room for changes to bring more happiness.
All these increase happiness:
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Some love connection – spouse, romantic partner, close friends, close family
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Compassion without boundaries
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Some level of honor
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Service to the community of the earth as a whole
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Spirituality – the brain is hardwired for it!
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NOTE: Money is NOT on the list
Things you can do every day to increase happiness:
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Stretching, exercise, movement or dance
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Trying something new
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Feeling you did something well
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Loving someone (human &/or animal)
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Honorable action
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Altruistic action for family, community or earth
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Regular spirituality, whether meditation, prayer, quiet contemplation, spiritual reading or singing, mindful walking